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Book · 2018
Little White Lies
14+Use caution44% values match
A sharp, funny mystery whose real subject is gossip, reputation and the lies wealthy families tell, with frequent coarse language and adult secrets throughout.
Guidance at a glance
Language
ModerateInsults or profanity appear and need guidance.
Nudity, sex, romance
ModerateRomance or sexual themes need parent guidance.
Products and purchases
ModerateFranchise attachment or consumerism needs guidance.
Violence and fear
ModerateViolence, peril, or fear may unsettle younger viewers.
Overall Suitability
44%Better avoided for most children.
Story Overview
Sawyer Taft has grown up poor, raised by a single mother who has never named her father. When her estranged grandmother offers to pay for college in exchange for nine months as a debutante, Sawyer accepts, mainly because the ball gives her access to the small circle of men who might be her father.
Inside that world she is drawn to three other debutantes, and the four of them begin pulling at the secrets their families have spent decades burying. The novel alternates between the season itself and a framing device in which the four girls are sitting in a jail cell, so the reader knows from the first page that something has gone badly wrong.
What follows is a mystery about paternity, an old cover-up, and an anonymous blog that trades in other people private lives. Its subject is the machinery of reputation in a wealthy Southern town, and what people will do to protect it.
Content Breakdown
There is no sexual content on the page, but adult sexual history drives the plot: the narrator was conceived when her mother was seventeen, and adultery is discussed repeatedly. An anonymous gossip blog trades in secrets, and at one point an intimate photograph of a girl is used as leverage. Coarse language is frequent for the genre. The protagonists kidnap and detain another girl, which the book treats as comedy, and a hit-and-run victim lies in a coma that the narrator visits in hospital. Wealth, status and appearance are the water the whole story swims in.
Chapter and content evidence
- The narrator mother works in a bar and the narrator describes being raised there.
- Adults drink at galas and social events throughout the season.
- No teenage character is shown drunk on the page and no drug use occurs.
Specific passage/chapter support (4)
p18-19, p41The bar where her mother works is an early setting, and the narrator says she was pretty much raised in a bar.p61A teenage boy is asked directly whether he is drunk at a social event, and deflects rather than denies.The four uses of cocktail all refer to cocktail attire rather than to drinking.
No character uses recreational drugs at any point in the novel.
Chapter and content evidence
- Forty instances of coarse language appear across 335 pages, on roughly one page in nine.
- The register is sharp teenage sarcasm rather than aggression, but it is persistent.
- Several instances are gendered insults used between women.
Specific passage/chapter support (5)
Hell accounts for fifteen instances and damn for eight, used mostly as exclamation.
Bitch appears four times, including a mother using it about another woman in front of her daughter.
Bastard appears four times, twice with the literal meaning aimed at the narrator parentage.
p158A boy tells the school he slept with the narrator when he had not, and the slur follows her for years.Ass and crap appear five times between them; one use of slut appears in the whole book.
Chapter and content evidence
- No sexual scene occurs and no character is described unclothed in a sexual context.
- The central mystery is the identity of a father conceived in a single encounter when the mother was seventeen.
- Adultery among the parent generation is discussed repeatedly and matter-of-factly.
- One plot thread involves an intimate photograph of a girl being used as leverage.
Specific passage/chapter support (7)
p29The narrator knows only three facts about her father, including that her mother slept with him once.p255She states plainly that her mother was seventeen at the time.p229She confronts her mother with the accusation that she slept with another woman husband.p214A friend reacts with horror to the suggestion that her own father may have been involved.p181The narrator finds a photograph of a naked girl curled up with her chest and privates obscured, saved alongside a screenshot of a gossip blog and clearly held as leverage.p158A boy has sex with a girl under the bleachers and lets the school believe it was the narrator.The three other uses of naked are a figure of speech and a spa treatment, not sexual content.
Chapter and content evidence
- The plot is built on entry into an expensive debutante season.
- Shopping, gowns, personal shoppers and galas structure the calendar of the novel.
- Status and appearance visibly govern how adults treat the narrator.
Specific passage/chapter support (4)
p44-45An afternoon with a personal shopper in a department store is played for comedy but establishes the cost of belonging.p22The narrator contrasts her own life of off-brand knives and drinking from the carton with her grandmother world.The bargain that starts the book trades nine months of debutante events for a college education.
The narrative mocks this world constantly while the narrator still competes inside it, which is left unresolved.
Chapter and content evidence
- Three of the four narrators abduct and unlawfully detain another teenage girl, and the fourth becomes complicit.
- The detention is written as farce rather than as a crime with weight.
- A hit-and-run victim lies in a coma throughout, and the narrator visits him in hospital on the page.
- Direct physical violence between characters is otherwise almost absent.
Specific passage/chapter support (7)
p90A senator daughter is found duct-taped to a chair in a pool house, held by the narrator friends, who joke that they have been feeding her.p96The narrator names it herself, asking whether felony kidnapping is not rather worse than whatever is being covered up.p109She admits she personally tied the girl to the chair, and refers to her as the girl Lily kidnapped.p205The narrator sits with a comatose boy in hospital and reads aloud to him, in a recurring scene.p212A boy was hit by a car in a hit-and-run and has been in a coma for four and a half weeks.p244-248The identity of the driver who caused the coma is the central thread of the mystery.p32-34The only firearm in the book is a Nerf gun fired as a family joke, and most instances of shot are the dialogue tag I shot back.Islamic Values
Gossip, rumour, and the anonymous blogThe engine of this plot is people talking about each other. An anonymous blog trades in private lives, a false rumour about the narrator survives for years, and secrets are used as currency. This maps almost line for line onto the cluster in Surah al-Hujurat 49:11-12, which forbids mockery, backbiting, and spying. The book treats the gossip as corrosive rather than fun, so the discussion is close at hand.High
- An anonymous secrets blog runs through the novel, publishing private information about named people.
- p158: a boy invents a sexual rumour about the narrator, and the school believes it for years. This is buhtan, a lie that damages a reputation.
- p181: a private photograph is kept alongside a screenshot of the blog, held as leverage rather than published.
- The narrative sides with the girls who try to stop the blog, so this is depicted and condemned.
A child judged for a parent sinThe narrator is looked down on because her mother was unmarried and seventeen. Islam is explicit that no soul bears the burden of another, and a child carries no blame for the circumstances of their birth. The novel instinctively agrees, and gives families a clear case for separating disapproval of an act from contempt for a person.Moderate
- p29: the narrator knows only that her mother slept with her father once and that he was not looking for a scandal.
- p255: her mother was seventeen when she was born, a fact used against both of them socially.
- Bastard is used about her twice in its literal sense, as an insult rather than a description.
- The story treats the adults who look down on her as small, not as correct.
Status, appearance, and israfThe whole world of the book runs on wealth and display: gowns, galas, personal shoppers, and a season that exists to present daughters to society. The narrator mocks it and competes in it at the same time, and that tension is never resolved. It is a useful mirror for asking what we spend on appearances and why.Moderate
- p44-45: an extended shopping trip establishes the cost of simply being allowed to participate.
- p22: the narrator contrasts her own household with her grandmother world in blunt material terms.
- The founding bargain of the plot trades nine months of social performance for tuition.
- Depicted and satirised, but never actually rejected by the narrator, who wants to win.
Lying, secrecy, and amanahThe title is the theme. Nearly every adult is concealing something, and the girls lie routinely to investigate. The book distinguishes between lies told to protect the powerful and lies told to uncover them, which is a distinction worth examining rather than accepting, since sidq is owed even when the truth is inconvenient.Moderate
- The framing device opens with the four narrators in a jail cell, so the reader knows deception has consequences from page one.
- A decades-old cover-up by the parent generation is the mystery at the centre of the book.
- The girls deceive adults repeatedly in pursuit of the truth, and the narrative treats this as justified.
- Worth discussing: the story never asks whether a good motive makes a lie permissible.
Loyalty between friendsThe strongest positive material in the book. Four girls from very different positions protect each other at real cost, including standing between a friend and public humiliation. This is a good picture of companionship that a family can affirm without qualification.Mild
- The four narrators repeatedly choose each other over social advantage.
- p158: a friend reacts to the rumour about the narrator with immediate, protective anger.
- The jail-cell framing exists because they refuse to give each other up.
- Depicted and endorsed, and the clearest thing in the book to praise.
Serious wrongdoing played for laughsThe heroines commit a real crime against another girl and the narrative treats it as a comic scrape rather than as zulm. Islam weighs an act by what it does to the person on the receiving end, not by how likeable the perpetrator is. This is worth naming precisely because the book is charming about it.Moderate
- p90: a girl is duct-taped to a chair and held against her will, and the scene is written for laughs.
- p96: the narrator recognises it as felony kidnapping, but the recognition changes nothing and no one is held to account.
- p109: she describes her own role in tying the victim up in the same wry register as the rest of the book.
- Depicted and normalised: the victim is unsympathetic, which the story uses to keep the reader on the side of the perpetrators.
Islamic Values Reflection
This book is unusually well suited to a conversation about the tongue. Its plot is driven almost entirely by what people say about each other: rumour, blackmail, an anonymous blog, and a lie about a girl reputation that follows her for years. The Quran addresses this cluster directly in Surah al-Hujurat, and a reader can hold the story against that standard without any strain, because the novel itself treats the gossip as corrosive rather than entertaining. What it does not question is the world it is set in, where status and appearance are simply what matters. The narrator mocks that world constantly but still wants a place in it, and that tension is worth naming rather than resolving.
Suspicion and backbiting
approvedThe plot runs on an anonymous blog trading in private lives, and on secrets held as leverage. This ayah addresses that cluster directly: suspicion, spying, and speaking of people behind their backs.
Speech, mockery, gossip, and language
وَلَا يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُم بَعْضًا ۚ أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَن يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا
Allah forbids backbiting and compares it to eating the flesh of one's dead brother.
Quran 49:12 Quran.com
Do not ridicule one another
approvedA false rumour about the narrator follows her for years, and mockery is the social currency of the debutante world she enters.
Speech, mockery, gossip, and language
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا يَسْخَرْ قَوْمٌ مِّن قَوْمٍ عَسَىٰ أَن يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِّنْهُمْ
Believers are forbidden from mocking one another; the mocked people may be better than those mocking them.
Quran 49:11 Quran.com
What backbiting is
approvedUseful for a family reading this book, because it defines the wrong precisely: saying about someone what they would dislike, even when it is true.
Speech, mockery, gossip, and language
ذِكْرُكَ أَخَاكَ بِمَا يَكْرَهُ
Backbiting is mentioning your brother in a way he dislikes.
Sahih Muslim 2589 Sunnah.com
Speak good or remain silent
approvedThe counterpart to the book. Almost every harm in the story begins with someone repeating something they could have left unsaid.
Speech, mockery, gossip, and language
مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الآخِرِ فَلْيَقُلْ خَيْرًا أَوْ لِيَصْمُتْ
Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6136 Sunnah.com
Rivalry for more distracts you
approvedThe debutante season is an engine of status competition, and the narrator mocks it while still competing in it.
Wealth, time wasting, consumerism, and dunya
أَلْهَاكُمُ التَّكَاثُرُ حَتَّىٰ زُرْتُمُ الْمَقَابِرَ
Competition for more distracts people until they reach the graves.
Quran 102:1-2 Quran.com
Positives
Guard your tongueLoyalty over advantageTruth costs somethingJudge the deed not the birthStatus is not worth
Family Discussion
- The plot turns on gossip and an anonymous blog. What does Surah al-Hujurat say about this?
- A false rumour about Sawyer followed her for years. What is the harm of buhtan, and can it be undone?
- An intimate photo is used as leverage. Why is exposing someone private life a serious wrong?
- Sawyer is judged for how she was born. What does Islam say about a child responsibility for a parent sin?
- Everyone in this world is performing. Where is the line between good adab and dishonesty?